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A minority of the women you're exchanging messages with may never intend to meet anybody for an actual date. There were some overweight women on there.
Do not send money. It feels unpleasant, but so it goes. Late last month, OkCupid announced a fairly fundamental change to its dating service: the company would no longer allow users to see visitors to their profile. This is the advantage and the disadvantage of online dating.
- It's not trans friendly because of this. First of all, a lot of the bad stuff has gone away.
NOT a troll thread So me and this girl hit it off on okcupid recently. She responded to my initial message with a rather long one saying that she liked that we had a lot in common and that I wasn't some creep, yada yada. We send each other a few more messages and then she deactivates her account, stating that she gets too many weird messages from guys. I send her an email to her inbox and it's only been two days but I'm curious about two things. What percentage of email services send emails to the spam box? I would imagine that most personal emails DON'T get sent there but I'm no techie. My friend advised me to wait until 4-5 days to send another one in case she lost it. She seemed rather happy with my profile and with the many things we had in common but she could have had a bunch of work to do or something. Although I know that her job has only about 9 hours of work a day since we are in the same field. From a guy that sucks with women. This is highly unlikely, so she definitely received it. Your friend is correct though, you should definitely wait about 4 days. Then maybe send a follow-up, real friendly, just to remind her. There's a reasonable chance she intends to respond to you, but hasn't yet. It's likely that she is simply waiting to know which night she is available for coffee before she responds. The more back and forth with messages you send the more chance you have to overthink and screw things up or say something that creeps her out. Keep in mind she is also getting new interesting messages from guys everyday and may easily get distracted. That being said, 2 messages in at the latest I go for the number and meet up. Set a date, build anticipation and then get your game on in person. Likely you won't be physical the first date besides a hug which you should always do to greet , but if you really like the girl by the second date you better at least kiss or it's all off. Just my 2 cents. This is highly unlikely, so she definitely received it. Your friend is correct though, you should definitely wait about 4 days. Then maybe send a follow-up, real friendly, just to remind her. There's a reasonable chance she intends to respond to you, but hasn't yet. It's likely that she is simply waiting to know which night she is available for coffee before she responds. I haven't asked her out to coffee yet; I was going to before she deactivated her account. The more back and forth with messages you send the more chance you have to overthink and screw things up or say something that creeps her out. Keep in mind she is also getting new interesting messages from guys everyday and may easily get distracted. That being said, 2 messages in at the latest I go for the number and meet up. Set a date, build anticipation and then get your game on in person. Likely you won't be physical the first date besides a hug which you should always do to greet , but if you really like the girl by the second date you better at least kiss or it's all off. Just my 2 cents. My friend gave me the same advice and he has success wih it. We only had 5 combined messages though. You already know if you're interested. This is a CRM like add on that allows you to track opens. Embed a link in there to something innocuous. If she clicks on it, you'll know that too. Intel for modern dating. This is a CRM like add on that allows you to track opens. Embed a link in there to something innocuous. If she clicks on it, you'll know that too. Intel for modern dating. I can only do this for a new message right? Do I have to embed a link in the email or is that just something extra to confirm that she read the email? I'm waiting until five days before next email and if no response... This even happens after several successful exchanges and moving to e-mail from the site client. There really isn't rhyme or reason for this. Don't give it much thought as you could drive yourself crazy searching for a logical reason. Move on to the next one. This is the strength of online dating. A girl messaged me a few weeks ago and was very interested in the fact that i was active and an outdoorsman. We had a successful exchange of messages for about a week, and then I just deactivated my account. Not really sure why. She was cool, but I just realized she wasn't really my type and that was beginning to become my experience with OKC. I wouldn't overthink it, OP. In my experience, women are very good at playing nice and seeming interested, whereas they are really not. Many are just kind-natured and hate to break hearts and let guys down hard, so they consequently put guys in the situation that you are currently in. Obvious wrote: People disappear or stop answering on dating websites all the time. This even happens after several successful exchanges and moving to e-mail from the site client. There really isn't rhyme or reason for this. Don't give it much thought as you could drive yourself crazy searching for a logical reason. Move on to the next one. This is the strength of online dating. Obvious wrote: People disappear or stop answering on dating websites all the time. This even happens after several successful exchanges and moving to e-mail from the site client. There really isn't rhyme or reason for this. Don't give it much thought as you could drive yourself crazy searching for a logical reason. Move on to the next one. This is the strength of online dating. Just with my strict requirement to not go out with fat chicks eliminates literally like 96% of the girls there. I don't believe this is true at all. At least one was a runner--not all of them were distance-runner skinny. There were some overweight women on there. I did not go out with them. Obvious wrote: OP here wrote: Just with my strict requirement to not go out with fat chicks eliminates literally like 96% of the girls there. I don't believe this is true at all. At least one was a runner--not all of them were distance-runner skinny. There were some overweight women on there. I did not go out with them. Depends where you are living. My state is one of the fattest states outside the South. Those numbers have plateaued or stopped increasing as fast as before in the last few years. Obvious wrote: People disappear or stop answering on dating websites all the time. This even happens after several successful exchanges and moving to e-mail from the site client. There really isn't rhyme or reason for this. Don't give it much thought as you could drive yourself crazy searching for a logical reason. Move on to the next one. This is the strength of online dating. Everyone has so many irons in the fire at the same time. This is the advantage and the disadvantage of online dating. An interaction that would've seemed promising in the pre-OKC world might no longer seem worth pursuing, because everyone can just keep rolling the dice until something electric happens. Even then, a lot of online relationships move quickly and fizzle, and most people continue to actively use the websites. It's great if you're looking to have a long series of casual flings, but if you're looking for something more serious, then it can be tricky. My advice is to keep rolling the dice, don't get too invested in anything until you've had at least a couple of fantastic dates with someone. Then, and this suggestion may be controversial, I think you should have a conversation about getting off the websites. It isn't a conversation about exclusivity per se. Just say that while you're not asking for a commitment yet, you're interested in seeing what it is that the two of you have found, and you think that being on the websites is distracting and makes it hard to give it a chance. Among my friends who are in long term relationships that started online, I've noticed one thing they have in common is that all of them very quickly deactivated after they met their partner. Obvious wrote: OP here wrote: Just with my strict requirement to not go out with fat chicks eliminates literally like 96% of the girls there. I don't believe this is true at all. At least one was a runner--not all of them were distance-runner skinny. There were some overweight women on there. I did not go out with them. Most of the women over age 60 are fat, out of shape, and often still looking for a rich guy, i. A woman and I from pof made a great connection instantly. We talk easily about anything, and it's a happy relationship. However, she lives 5 hours from me, and both of us see that as being a major obstacle. Both of us own our own homes, I'm doing okay financially, she's better off than I am, but I like where I'm loving. I would not be comfortable with her giving her bigger home to come here. Even though it's a great match, that's basically the end of it. Obvious wrote: OP here wrote: Just with my strict requirement to not go out with fat chicks eliminates literally like 96% of the girls there. I don't believe this is true at all. At least one was a runner--not all of them were distance-runner skinny. There were some overweight women on there. I did not go out with them. Most of the women over age 60 are fat, out of shape, and often still looking for a rich guy, i. A woman and I from pof made a great connection instantly. We talk easily about anything, and it's a happy relationship. However, she lives 5 hours from me, and both of us see that as being a major obstacle. Both of us own our own homes, I'm doing okay financially, she's better off than I am, but I like where I'm loving. I would not be comfortable with her giving her bigger home to come here. Even though it's a great match, that's basically the end of it. No, I'm talking about 18-30. They are almost all fat. Obvious wrote: OP here wrote: Just with my strict requirement to not go out with fat chicks eliminates literally like 96% of the girls there. I don't believe this is true at all. At least one was a runner--not all of them were distance-runner skinny. There were some overweight women on there. I did not go out with them. Most of the women over age 60 are fat, out of shape, and often still looking for a rich guy, i. A woman and I from pof made a great connection instantly. We talk easily about anything, and it's a happy relationship. However, she lives 5 hours from me, and both of us see that as being a major obstacle. Both of us own our own homes, I'm doing okay financially, she's better off than I am, but I like where I'm loving. I would not be comfortable with her giving her bigger home to come here. Even though it's a great match, that's basically the end of it. No, I'm talking about 18-30. They are almost all fat. Obvious wrote: People disappear or stop answering on dating websites all the time. This even happens after several successful exchanges and moving to e-mail from the site client. There really isn't rhyme or reason for this. Don't give it much thought as you could drive yourself crazy searching for a logical reason. Move on to the next one. This is the strength of online dating. Plus, there are roughly 10x as many guys on the dating sites as women. Many women just window shop with no intention of meeting anyone. I go for the meeting on the 1st or second email. If she isn't willing to meet at a public place for coffee or a drink right away, I'd move on. You don't need to waste time making penpals. Obvious wrote: People disappear or stop answering on dating websites all the time. This even happens after several successful exchanges and moving to e-mail from the site client. There really isn't rhyme or reason for this. Don't give it much thought as you could drive yourself crazy searching for a logical reason. Move on to the next one. This is the strength of online dating. Plus, there are roughly 10x as many guys on the dating sites as women. Many women just window shop with no intention of meeting anyone. I go for the meeting on the 1st or second email. If she isn't willing to meet at a public place for coffee or a drink right away, I'd move on. You don't need to waste time making penpals. I'm going to try to meet some shorties at races.
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Both of us own our own homes, I'm doing okay financially, she's better off than I am, but I like where I'm loving. When someone has a low compatibility percentage and a high enemy percentage, it's because you have little things in common. U really gets accomplished until you meet in person. OKCupid OKC realizes that it if it wants to stay relevant in the ever-changing. See our and to learn more about the use of data and your rights. The blog did not say if it was Quickmatch only, where profile glad would be a confound. This even happens after several successful exchanges and moving to e-mail from the site client.
